Focusing on others, will not make you a better person.
When I stop looking at all my husband‘s faults and start looking at
my own faults, our marriage improved. I was so busy trying
focusing on him, I neglected focusing own myself. When I began
to put all my focus on myself, it was embarrassing how bad I was. I realize I am responsible for what I do, and not responsible for
what he does. I had to apologize to him and ask God for forgiveness.
I have to answer to God for how I treat him and he has to do the same.
I have plenty of responsibilities trying to be the best wife I can be
I read all the scriptures in the Bible about marriage. I began to pray
and seek God, asking Him to make our marriage better. I learn that
valuable lesson after being married for 3 years.