Move out the doorway, you’re blocking the traffic.
If the person isn’t willing and ready to commit, after a reasonable
amount of time, it‘s time to move on. They’re just blocking anyone else
who in interested in commitment, coming into your life. Don’t let
these people keep popping in and out of your life. You have to completely
shut that situation down. Stop allowing those late night calls and just
dropping by. Selfish, self centered people will suck up your time,
and energy for their own benefit. You are worthy of commitment.